Victims of Rape “May Enjoy Intercourse,” According to Indonesian Judge

*Trigger warning: This post discusses rape culture and victim blaming language and might be upsetting.

2012 was not a good year in regards to rape culture and victim-blaming attitudes. We heard some pretty nasty comments that completely ignored the suffering of rape and sexual assault survivors.

Rape culture appears to be fueled by ignorance, as many of the comments showed. Self-nominated rape expert Todd Akin claimed that there is such a thing as “legitimate rape,” and California Judge Derek Johnson said that “the body does not allow rape to happen.” Rep. Roger Rivard passed on his father’s advice by stating that “some girls rape easy.”

This year has begun equally poorly, as another completely ignorant man in a position of authority and power has spoken out about rape and rape victims. This time, it is Judge Muhammad Daming Sanusi, who told Indonesian high court lawmakers that victims of rape ”may enjoy intercourse.”

In a discussion concerning the death penalty for rapists, Sanusi said that “Both the victims of rape and the rapist might have enjoyed their intercourse together, so we should think twice before handing down the death penalty.”

By calling rape intercourse, Sanusi suggests that rape can be consensual. This denies  horrific reports, traumatic events, and accounts of forceful and violent experiences of rape survivors. Rape should not be called sex, or intercourse, or for that matter anything other than rape. Rape is forced on the person, is not the least bit consensual, and not the least bit enjoyable.

Consequences of Rape Culture and Victim Blaming

We’ve previously discussed rape culture in relation to a number of different topics: video games, politics, advertisement, and fuck rape culturechildren’s grammar books (to name a few examples).

Rape culture blames women in a variety of ways. It often challenges their lifestyles and behaviors to infer that they are somehow responsible for rape and sexual assault; or normalizes, trivializes, and defends rape. Rape culture and victim blaming is absurd since we are unlikely to blame a victim of robbery for carrying cash and credit cards, or because they simply left their house and someone later broken in.

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Apparently, the Female Body Can Permit or Prevent Rape

Many of us were horrified when Todd Akin claimed that in cases of “legitimate rape,” the female body is able to prevent pregnancy. Well, he’s not the only one blaming the victim: recently, California judge Derek Johnsonsaid, in regards to a 2008 rape case, that if someone doesn’t want sexual intercourse, the body “will not permit that to happen,” that the woman “didn’t put up a fight” and that “I’m not a gynecologist but I can tell you something: if someone doesn’t want to have sexual intercourse the body shuts down. The body will not permit that to happen unless a lot of damage is inflicted and we heard nothing about that in this case.”

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”Some girls rape easy” – Just a Bit of Fatherly Advice

Not long after “legitimate rape” Todd Akin (as Sarah referred to him in an earlier piece), we are again experiencing rape culture and victim blaming. This time, Rep. Roger Rivard supported rape culture and victim blaming by saying that “some girls rape easy.”

According to the Journal Sentinel, Rivard stated that consensual sex can easily turn into rape after the fact – for instance, if the girl changes her mind after becoming pregnant. He said that this was advice given to him by his father when he was young.  

Rivard later said he was misquoted and offered this explanation:

“Sexual assault is a crime that unfortunately is misunderstood and my comments have the potential to be misunderstood as well. Rape is a horrible act of violence. Sexual assault unfortunately often goes unreported to police. I have four daughters and three granddaughters and I understand the importance of making sure that awareness of this crime is taken very seriously.”

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Men advocating against rape

We have written a few pieces recently regarding victim blaming, the notion that women somehow are partly to blame for being raped. Often these assumptions center on women’s behavior or appearance as an invite to rape. Other times, victim blaming occurs as women are seen as irresponsible for being on their own, for consuming alcohol or for not being careful enough.

We need to be aware and critical of victim blaming as rape is never a woman’s fault. It should go without saying that women should be free to do whatever they like without being raped or sexually harassed. Victim blaming is awful in that it transfers blame onto the victim while minimizing the responsibility of the real perpetrator, the rapist. Often times, campaigns that strive to prevent rape are aimed at women and tips are provided to make women safer, as if preventing rape is women’s and not men’s responsibility. [Read more...]

Victim blaming language: “A woman got her dream…”

*Trigger warning: the content of this piece discusses rape and sexual assault, and may be disturbing to some readers.

A recent article featured in the Swedish newspaper The Local (Swedish news in English) reported on a widely covered story regarding the group rape of one woman by seven men (eight men were charged but seven were convicted of rape, their sentences ranging from 4.5 to 6.5 years in prison). The story is horrifying as the group of men repeatedly raped the woman over an extended period of time, laughing and clapping their hands as they did so.

What we will focus on however is the language used by some of the individuals that commented on the article on The Local’s website. Many of the comments displayed stereotypical victim blaming thoughts and language and hardly any of those commenting reacted to the victim blaming, probably a consequence of how normalized victim blaming is.

It is troubling that the newspaper does not appear to screen through its comments since many of the comments are quite disturbing. We also find it interesting that no one appeared to pick up on the victim blaming. Since victim blaming is both widespread and normalized in our society, it is not uncommon to find language that indicates that the woman is at fault. We do believe that it is very important to discuss the language used to place blame on the victim as it trivializes the act of rape, questions the woman’s intent, while simultaneously diminishing the actions of the seven rapists. [Read more...]

Why do men rape? Evolutionary theory has the answer: part two

*Trigger warning: the content of this piece discusses rape and sexual assault, and may be disturbing to some readers.

 In our first piece: Why do men rape? Evolutionary theory has the answer: part one, we discussed rape and victim blaming in regards to evolutionary psychology. We expressed our dislike with the notion that rape is an evolutionary trait. But evolutionary psychology is not the only field presenting misogynist theories concerning rape. Evolutionary biology is also a common culprit. One of us recently came across a book that discussed the enigmas concerning women’s biology and was shocked, surprised and also infuriated with the way that rape was blamed on the “deceptive” female body.

Not only is rape, according to evolutionary psychology, an adaptive trait. It is also, according to evolutionary biology, commonly presented as the result of women’s concealed ovulation. In short, rape is blamed on the very nature of women’s bodies. To explain: in contrast to some nonhuman primates, women’s ovulation is concealed. That is, most women and men do not necessarily know when a woman is ovulating. Different evolutionary theories have attempted to explain this enigma. One of these theories states that women’s secret ovulation is a response to trying to keep control over men and thus control over their own sexual reproduction and sexual partners. At the same time, this theory also discusses rape. If ovulation would not be concealed, different men may try to reproduce with, and compete over the same woman as she signals ovulation, “…leaving women little choice, perhaps, but to accept the victor” (Barash & Lipton, 2009, p. 62). This statement alludes to rape if ovulation is obvious, but the same is true for concealed ovulation, according to evolutionary biology:

 …women pay a potentially devastating cost as a result of their concealed ovulation: it makes them more vulnerable to being raped. Among animals such as horses and dogs, males by and large are sexually interested only when females are receptive. Hence, mares and bitches are only rarely sexually attacked by stallions or dogs because when females aren’t in estrus, males aren’t interested, and when males are sexually demanding, females are too. A possible downside of women’s having evolved to obscure their time of peak ovulatory receptivity may therefore be that they have ended up being more vulnerable to men’s forcing unwanted sex upon them simply because as a result of concealed ovulation, men – clueless enough when it comes to romance generally – are even more clueless as to when women are likely to be biologically receptive (Barash & Lipton, 2009, p. 62-63).

According to these theories, the very nature of women’s biology compels men to rape them, while blame is placed on women’s bodies as they do not signal ovulation or fertilization in an obvious manner (even though the same would be true if they did).

These statements made by evolutionary biologists are extreme examples of victim blaming as they view rape as an innate biological trait that is dependent on women’s faulty biology. If it was not for women’s concealed ovulation rapists would not be so inclined to rape. At the same time, visible ovulation may result in the same consequence, rapists being inclined to rape. Evolutionary theories are male dominated, while advocating for the extraordinary male need for reproductive success as normal, even if reproduction includes rape (which physically, mentally, and emotionally harms women). Women’s bodies are viewed as deceptive, alluring, faulty and deviant, meaning that if it were not for women’s deceptive biology, perhaps men would not have to rape. [Read more...]

Why do men rape? Evolutionary theory has the answer: part one

*Trigger warning: the content of this piece discusses rape and sexual assault, and may be disturbing to some readers.

“She was asking for it,” “she was wearing revealing clothes,” “she has a reputation of ‘sleeping around’” and “she had been drinking”. When discussing rape, statements such as these are referred to as victim blaming. Victim blaming justifies the rapist’s actions while placing blame on the victim. Rape is never the victims’ fault, but still, victim blaming, believe it or not, is extremely common, even in supposedly unbiased academic research.

While studying psychology at the university, one of the authors came across evolutionary psychology. Evolutionary psychology basically examines and attempts to explain human behavioral traits and their evolutionary adaptations; essentially that some traits survive because they are adaptive. While reading about evolutionary theories she was astounded by the unmasked and blatant women hatred that appeared so common in the field. For someone who aspired to have a career in the field of psychology this was a complete turn off. As we started discussing different theories of evolutionary psychology together we noticed that many of them came across as misogynist. For example, one scholar claimed that the sexualization of women in media is beneficial to advertising companies because evolutionary adaptations have shown that men prefer attractive women. Therefore advertisements in which women show a lot of skin and are very attractive, and influence men to buy products. The author of that specific piece even encouraged the sexualization of women in advertisements.

As bad as this sounds, we encountered even worse theories. One theory that really struck a nerve concerned rape and rape behavior. Rape is, according to some scholars of evolutionary psychology, an evolutionary adaptive trait that allows men to make sure that they reproduce, father offspring and carry on their genes. According to these scholars men have evolved a psychological response that predisposes them to the tendency to rape. These scholars believe that rape had reproductive benefits to ancestral males, which make rape an adaptive psychological mechanism which behavior is selected for. [Read more...]

Dominique Strauss-Kahn Is Released, Meanwhile, I’m Losing My Mind

I really have come to believe that my brain is just functioning on a different wavelength than everyone else’s today. From Michael Vick being re-hired by Nike to the news that Dominique Strauss-Kahn had been released on his own recognizance, I really just can’t understand what the hell is going on.

I understand that there are certainly political motivations for wanting Dominique Strauss-Kahn out of the IMF picture. I get that. But what I don’t understand is why the young woman who accused him of forcing her to perform oral and anal sex is getting such a bum rap – and this time, not only from the usual suspects.

We know that victim-blaming and doubting is a major problem in the U.S., especially among the media. Comparisons between Strauss-Kahn and the Duke lacrosse team are emanating from the men’s rights types, and we heard today that the case could be dropped due to credibility issues from the victim – but what are those issues? [Read more...]

Are SlutWalks Offensive…Or Awesome?

It seems you can’t read a paper or blog these days without articles about SlutWalks — protests against victim-blaming and rape culture — popping up. I’ll take this opportunity to add to that growing pile of stories.

I admit, when I first heard of SlutWalks, I was instantly conflicted. While I will fight to my death defending the notion that dressing or behaving a certain way is — under NO circumstances – an invitation for rape, I couldn’t help wondering how using a pejorative term furthers the rights of sexual assault victims. Luckily, as quickly as I had become conflicted, I came to my senses. I realized the term “SlutWalk” bothered me because I was buying into the myth of the slut.

This is very alarming. Me, a die-hard feminist whose existence centers on the belief that women have every right to choose their lifestyles, had succumbed to this irrational stereotype. Momentarily, but nevertheless, I had. And that, my friends, is a huge red flag: the acceptance of slut mythology is so ingrained in our culture that it can set up camp in an otherwise sex-positive, feminist brain.

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