Breast Ironing – preventing sexual assault and rape or damaging women?

We had never heard about the custom of breast ironing before watching the documentary television series Taboo, which provided an in-depth view into the practice. Breast ironing is mostly practiced in Cameroon, and is described as either the pounding or massaging of young girl’s breasts often with a heated object (such as a wooden pestle) in order to stop or slow the growth of breasts.

This practice is usually carried out by the mother and is said to help prevent sexual abuse and rape, as well as keep young girls in school for as long as possible. It is believed that breast development signal sexual maturity and readiness for sex, and therefore breast ironing may prevent men to sexually assault young Cameroon girls. Breast ironing is however extremely painful and often lead to a multitude of side effects, such as tissue damage, breast cancer and cysts, and may interfere with breast feeding at a later age. [Read more...]

Domestic violence and vicious feminist propaganda: A journey inside the head of a conservative minister of justice

Jarosław Gowin (Official Ministry photo...with a bit of Feminists for Choice commentary)

Here’s an uncontroversial statement: domestic violence is bad. It’s bad for women, children and men. It’s an all-around nasty thing, right? And it’s worth doing all we reasonably can to stop it, right? Well, if you answered yes to both of the previous questions you are in opposition to the Polish Minister of Justice Jarosław Gowin who spent the major part of last week opposing the Council of Europe Convention on preventing and combating violence against women and domestic violence. Counterintuitive? Yes! Bigoted and incredibly stupid? Yes! In opposition to the minister’s very conservative views of women and marriage? Sadly – no.

The (and I cringe when I write  his job title) Minister of Justice thinks that this convention will force Poland to legally acknowledge partnerships (including – oh, the horror! – homosexual partnerships!). What’s worse – the convention claims that gender is a social construct and men and women shouldn’t be limited in their life choices based on their sex. A former Catholic Church altar boy and current Opus Dei affiliate as well as self-proclaimed defender of ‘common sense’ could not stomach any of this “vicious feminist propaganda” (a charming phrase he uses to describe the Convention in question).

Who would have suspected –  Gowin is proving to be a backward, bigoted chauvinist (pardon the legal jargon).  Although he has surprisingly progressive views on transsexuals and thinks the state should help them live in accordance with their identified gender rather than that assigned at birth (including supporting gender re-assignment surgery). I say surprisingly because a lot of Catholics claim transsexuals are just confused, or something, because “God doesn’t make mistakes”.  He can obviously cut himself off from some of his religiously and conservatively oriented worldview in a few cases but gender equality is not one of them.
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Women’s History Month: Marie Trintignant

Chère Marie, merci*                                               

Letting you discover Marie Trintignant is something that means a lot to me because this will tell you about my first feminist model. This woman was a French actress engaged in feminist issues, under the aegis of her mother, a national feminist figure. Marie Trintignant died in 2003, beaten to death by her partner. She left four children.

Marie Trintignant was the daughter of the French actor Jean-Louis Trintignant and of the filmmaker and writer Nadine Trintignant, who is one of the signatories of the Manifesto of the 343 in April 1971 for abortion rights.

Marie began to act in her parents’ movies very early, and in 1988, she performed in a supporting role, playing a prostitute in Une affaire de femmes. This film tells the true story of a mother during the German occupation of World War II who, in order to survive, became an abortionist, and was guillotined for that work.

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Demanding Justice for Rape Survivors

I just returned from the rally to demand justice for rape survivors and maximum sentencing for NYPD rape cops Mata and Moreno. What an inspiring event with an amazing turnout — dozens of men and women gathered to lend their support.

Unfortunately, the defense attorneys filed a motion to delay sentencing, so it has been pushed back one month. Nevertheless, we all stood together in solidarity and demanded an end to all violence against women, including rape, and for accountability of these crimes. Members of the Connect the Dots Coalition (including NOW-NYC, Crime Victims Treatment Center, Feministing, The Healing Center, New York City Alliance Against Sexual Assault and Service Women’s Action Network) were all present and spoke, as did NYC Council members, among others.

The message was clear: we will, under no circumstances, stand by as women and girls are raped, harassed and brutalized, especially at the hands of law enforcement. We are going to continue fighting until the city and the NYPD take rape seriously. As one speaker so eloquently put it, we challenge the NYPD to win back our trust and we challenge the judge to deliver justice. We demand an end to victim blaming and an environment in which victims are afraid to come forward, lest they be treated like the brave victim who reported her rape by NYPD officers. We will accept nothing less.

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Rihanna Shoots Her Rapist in “Man Down” Video

Rihanna has been a controversial music figure in recent years for all the wrong reasons. As a victim of physical abuse at the hands of her boyfriend, rapper/singer Chris Brown, Rihanna was victim-blamed and cast aside as she watched her fans post messages of support for her abuser all over the web. As a saucy provocateur and performer of sex-laden songs like 2011′s “S&M,” Rihanna is no stranger to controversy over her personal life and music.

Now, Rihanna is facing backlash and calls for boycotts from parenting and “family values” groups for the video for her latest single, “Man Down.” The video features a quite-fierce Rihanna shooting her rapist in cold blood, and feeling remorseful about what she has done. Lyrics from the song read: “‘Cause I didn’t mean to hurt him/Could’ve been somebody’s son/And I took his heart when/I pulled out that gun.” [Read more...]

Friday News Roundup

Should Violence Against Women Be Considered a Hate Crime? – A Radical Profeminist
‘Tis the Season to Support Your Local Abortion Fund – The Abortioneers
The Company They Keep: Congressmembers Meet with Anti-Abortion Extremists – RH Reality Check
New York Attempts to Put Brakes on Crisis Pregnancy Centers – Women’s e-News
Should Children Wear the Hijab? – Womanist Musings

And in honor of Hannukah, here’s an article about religious tolerance during the holiday season.

Tuesday News Roundup

So much women’s history goodness, such little time…

Over 200,000 Women were raped in conflict in DR Congo, now its time to ‘get cross’ and say no. Say No-Unite.

Women’s History Month: Writing Women Back into History. Library of Congress.

Origins of Women’s History Month has roots on Campus. Sonoma State Star.

Women’s History Month Spotlight: Dr. Mae Jemison. Haven Hollywood.

Famous Women Scientists and More for Women’s History Month. The Smart Mama.

When Talking to Boy’s Gets You Buried Alive

No seriously…. a Turkish girl was buried alive by her father for quote, “hanging out with boys.” The Huffington Post reports,

The body of a 16-year-old girl police say was buried alive by relatives in an “honor” killing carried out as punishment for talking to boys has been discovered in Kahta, Turkey.

Turkish police discovered the body after acting on an anonymous tip. The tipster told police that the girl was killed after a family council meeting, and had been buried under a chicken pen. Police say that the girl had complained two months earlier that her grandfather beat her for talking to boys. [Read more...]

Friday News Roundup

mouse-clickBeen a busy week, ya’ll. So glad it’s Friday. Here’s some links to get your weekend started off right.

New Permanent Form of Birth Control Approved By FDA – National Family Planning & Reproductive Health Association
NIH Eases Restrictions on Stem Cell Research – Feminist Daily News
White House Focuses on Violence Against Women – Women’s Media Center
26 AIDS Activists Arrested in Capitol Rotunda – Pam’s House Blend
Randall Terry Generating Lots of Press, But No Support – Right Wing Watch
Federal Appeals Court Upholds Mass. Abortion Clinic Buffer Zone Law – Boston Globe