Choice and my role as a birth doula

Editor’s Note: Today’s guest post comes to us from New York City doula-extraordinaire Erica Shane. We asked Erica to write about being a doula in honor of Pregnancy Awareness Month. Her explanation of her profession and its relation to choice is fascinating and touching. Enjoy!

What is a birth doula? According to DONA (Doulas of North America), a doula provides support to a woman and her partner throughout the childbearing year. She does not replace the partner in labor; instead, she helps support them so that they can focus on loving and encouraging the laboring woman. Doulas assist families in gathering information about their pregnancy, labor and the options available for delivery.  They provide continuous physical, emotional, and informational support before and during labor, birth and the immediate postpartum period. The intent of a doula is to help the woman have a safe and satisfying experience, as the woman defines it.

I am a holistic doula working in New York City. This means I view my mamas as whole, healthy individuals capable of intuiting when and how and where they want to give birth. [Read more...]

Why a Home Birth? It’s All in the Numbers

home birthGuest writer Moorea Malatt is a writer, songwriter/folk-singer of adult and children’s music. She has combined her creative success with helping others achieve fulfillment in her business, Metamorphosis Life Coaching. She supports people of all genders and sexualities in balancing finances and relationships with their artistic goals. Moorea regularly blogs at Queercents.

For those who believe in women’s freedom of choice about pregnancy, it’s time to think about women’s freedom of choice in birth. Though there are more birthing choices are available than ever before (hospital, birth center, midwives, home birth), there are 11 states where it is illegal for a midwife to attend a home birth and everywhere women are still regularly pressured into birthing in the hospital by partners, mothers, friends who do not trust that a woman can make the right individual choice for her body and her baby. Though a mother might feel more comfortable and in control at home, the prevailing ignorant thought is that if you don’t birth at a hospital, you are a bad mother putting your child at risk for the sake of your own comfort and preferences.

Women can feel good about taking back the birth experience from the doctors who “deliver” them and can even change the minds of well-meaning naysayers by learning the following numbers comparing home births with midwives to hospital births. [Read more...]