The Keep It Real Challenge

I’m not the world’s most obedient human, but I’m a sucker for a great idea. And this is one of them.

The Keep It Real Challenge was inspired by the kickass teen blogger Julia Bluhm, whose online petition took her to the steps of the Hearst building to protest Seventeen magazine’s use of airbrushed models. How mature is she? How media-savvy? The SPARK activist didn’t ask Seventeen to cease and desist. All she asked was that the magazine print one unretouched photospread per issue. Using her petition as a springboard, the Keep It Real Challenge is a social media campaign asking the larger pop media community to do the same.

Yesterday was a tweetfest that convinced Joanna Coles, the editor-in-chief of Marie Claire, and Lucky magazine to consider printing one unaltered photo per month.

Today we’re taking to the blogosphere. Making it personal. Trying to explain how a bunch of chirpy pictures can be so damaging. Even at my advanced age, when I absolutely know better. Have known better for a lot longer than Julia Bluhm’s been alive. Here’s the statistic that got me. “Twenty years ago, the average fashion model weighed 8% less than the average woman.Today that number is 23% less.”  [Read more...]

My Body, Myself: Or, what’s a gal gotta to do make peace with that chick in the mirror?

Inspired by Maureen Shaw’s post about the pregnant body …  

I know I’m probably asking the wrong crowd, but how do men do it?

How the hell do they stand in front of a mirror, grab their beer belly and grumble–and then toss on a shirt and go on their merry way?

How can they stand the heat in those long sleeves? Is it because they’ve never been taught to think of themselves as decoration? Because bare arms and shoulders haven’t been in for men since the gladiator games? Now that I’ve added my arms to the already-too-long litany of body parts I’m iffy about, I’ve developed a serious case of gender envy. Because I’d love to see myself as I see other women–as I’m (almost fairly) certain the men in my life who love me see me. But it’s not happening. Not yet, at least, though I won’t stop trying.

Till then, there are the questions. [Read more...]

My Big Breasts and Me: Body Shaming Pretending to be a Documentary

I don’t own a TV and this weekend made my conviction to go TV-free through life that much stronger. My husband and I were staying the night in a hotel and indulged in a rare guilty pleasure: channel-hopping while waiting till the next crime series comes on and we can watch hot detectives make out who killed “the vic” by magnifying images by a kabillion in super high-tech labs. So there we were sprawled in a hotel bed in west England waiting to watch Laurence Fishburne witness a gruesome autopsy, when we came across a documentary called “My Big Breasts and Me.” It sounded . . . well . . . a little weird perhaps, but I guess we were hoping for some real analysis and facts since it said it was a documentary. So we stayed and watched and, by golly, there were fumes coming out of my ears for about 95% of the time I was watching the thing.

The “documentary” featured a bunch of “experts” (including a private plastic surgeon who performs breast reduction – conflict of interests, anyone?) who spent their air time telling women that their breasts are a problem that needs fixing and not that the (mostly) men who react inappropriately should change their behaviour. [Read more...]

Learning to Love My Body

This month’s focus on gratitude has made me shift my focus to an unlikely source: my body. I am a sexual assault survivor and a former anorexic. Like many women, I hate my body. A big part of that is a very common response to sexual assault. When I was in therapy, my therapist had me do an exercise where I focused on a part of my body that I could say I loved, and I would express gratitude for that part of my body. I have never worked my way up past my toes.

Eating disordered behavior was also a response to the sexual abuse I experienced as a child. When I was a teenager, my goal in life was simply to disappear. Fortunately, I made some good friends in high school who helped me discover feminism and come out of my shell. Feminism has helped me learn to love my intellect, my sense of humor, and my passion for activism. But I am still learning to love my body. [Read more...]

Fashion Model Andrej Pejic Pushes Gender Binaries

At first glance, you would not guess that model Andrej Pejic is male. The 19-year-old native Bosnian began modeling in Australia three years ago, and credits his success to hard work and being at the right place in the right time. Pejic, who models both women’s and men’s clothing, has been received very well by the fashion industry; he is part of the gender-bending trend of fashion campaigns that embrace gender fluidity.

Much of the reaction Pejic has received is simple curiosity. Pejic is breaking the norm that only female bodies may model women’s clothing; mainstream fashion is learning that male bodies, too, can be feminine. His participation in the fashion industry is a step towards disconnecting the binary that only female bodies can be feminine. Pejic’s ability to exemplify femininity and masculinity is reconstructing the static notions of gender. Performativity of gender becomes more apparent with Pejic’s changing representations in modeling.

While Pejic deconstructs the relationship between femininity/masculinity and female/male, the matter by which his body is presented solidifies what it means to be feminine. The fashion industry accepts Pejic, whose body is thin and fragile, and this acceptance indicates that femininity is considered to be slimness and delicate features. Body politics is at the forefront of this discussion: Pejic’s inclusion in the fashion industry is at the cost of representing an exclusionary view of what it means to be feminine. [Read more...]

Feminist Explains Connection Between Parenting, Body Image, and Video Games

Feminist Conversations is a weekly column here at Feminists for Choice, where we talk to activists from across the interwebs to find out what feminism means to them. Today we’re talking to Chris Cruz-Boone, a life long geek and a professor in the Department of Communications at California State University, Bakersfield. She lives in Bakersfield with her partner John & their children Inara and Nathan. She is teaching her first Introduction to Video Games studies course in the winter.

1. When did you first call yourself a feminist, and what contributed to that decision?
The first day of my first Women Studies course the professor asked, “If you consider yourself a feminist, please raise your hand.” I was in the front row & when I looked behind me I realized I was the only person in a room of 45 people that had raised my hand. That moment was the first time I realized that I called myself a feminist and learning more about the feminist movement has only committed me further to my position.

2. What does feminism mean to you?
My initial understanding of feminism was influenced by the girl power movement. Media icons like Xena and Buffy made me feel both powerful and kick-ass for being a woman. Early on for me this is what feminism meant.

After reading bell hooks, and more recently Jessica Valenti, I have reframed feminism to be about more than kicking ass; although being kick-ass will always be part of feminism for me. Feminism is a belief in recognizing and challenging the oppression of all people. Feminism is not just fighting for women’s rights but because of historic and institutional oppression women are often at the center of unfair policies and mindsets. For me, feminism is not just a mindset but a way of life. [Read more...]

Love Your Body; October 21st

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October 21, 2009

Since October 21st is “Love Your Body Day,” I thought it would be good to focus this post on loving your body, loving sex and loving the pleasure that your body can give you (or you can give your body).

Every year, on “Love Your Body” day, I try to put all of my own body anxieties aside and really appreciate my body and all that it does for me. I have done many programs, events, and articles in honor of this day focusing primarily on body image, advertising and standards of beauty. But this year, I want to celebrate the day in a different way. Especially considering my role with Feminists for Choice as a “sexpert,” I want to celebrate my body, your body and SEX for EVERYBODY. So here goes…

My body is curvy, voluptuous, pale, overweight and mostly healthy. I worry about it all the time. I obsess over the rolls, flaws and imperfections. I worry about the exercise I always put off, the food I crave and the way my clothes fit. I would say that that one in every five minutes of my day is spent thinking about my body or food or both. I work on this issue and realize that some of the problem is societal, some is the result of my eating disorder, and some is intense scrutiny caused by the never ending barrage of messages from the media. [Read more...]

TGIF News Roundup

mouse2When Abstinence Only Doesn’t Work – Greta Christina’s Blog
Will Britain Elect an Openly-Gay Prime Minister? – Gaypolitics.com
Late Term Abortion Saved These Women’s Lives – Women’s e-News
The Last Abortion Doctor – Esquire
Are Lesbians More Satisfied With Their Body Image Than Straight Women? – BlogHer