Sweden Receives Its First Gender-Neutral Changing Room

transgenderAn LGBTQ organization at a school in Stockholm made headlines as they lobbied for and received an LGBTQ changing room, or a gender-neutral changing room, at their school. Two of the spokespeople for the organization said that they wanted a changing room for individuals who identify as LGBTQ. Last week the school held a ceremony celebrating the very first gender-neutral changing room in the nation.

We believe that this is a step in the right direction since there need to be spaces for LGBTQ individuals where they can feel safe and have access to accommodations that does not force them into stereotypical gender categories, or the categories of simply female or male.

At the same time, there is a lack of understanding of the LGBTQ community, as was demonstrated in discussions surrounding the opening of the gender neutral changing room. Rather than focusing on violence against LGBTQ individuals and their need for safe spaces the person who covered the story wondered how safe it would be to have both men and women change in the same room. The interviewer seems to assume that in an LGBTQ changing room the categories of male and female still rigidly apply, without being aware of the fact that many people within the LGBTQ community do not simply identify as male or female.   [Read more...]

Trans Identity and Public Restrooms

The other day, an article in our local newspaper caught our attention. The article discussed how a Swedish trans woman filed a claim of discrimination on the basis of gender identity.

The trans woman was, on two separate occasions, not allowed to use the women’s restroom after she was told by a “restroom host” that she was in fact a man. Despite explaining her transgender identity and her gender belonging, the woman was not allowed into the restroom.

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Update: Good News for Sweden’s Trans Community!

In a recent piece discussing Sweden’s abortion law during the time of Roe v. Wade, we described how trans women and men in Sweden were forced to undergo sterilization before transitioning.

The forced sterilization was much debated, both in Sweden and in other countries, as it completely went against human reproductive rights; and a revocation was planned for July 2013. But it seems that the decision to end Sweden’s discriminatory sterilization law has come early: our local feminist website has reported that the law has now been removed. The revocation is a great–and long overdue–victory. RFSL (The Swedish Federation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Rights) is planning on suing for compensation for the men and women who have been forcefully sterilized.

Trans Men and Women No Longer Considered Mentally Ill

Earlier this month, the American Psychiatric Association decided to remove Gender Identity Disorder (GID) from the latest version of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual’s (DSM) list of mental disorders. GID was defined as a condition in which the person experiences dissatisfaction with the sex they were assigned at birth and with the gender stereotypes associated with that sex, often leading to dysphoria, or intense feelings of discontent.

This is welcome news, since GID is being replaced by the term “Gender Dysphoria,” which is less pathologizing since it does not signify a mental disorder or that something is “wrong” with the person who identifies as a trans man or a trans woman. Instead, the focus is placed on the distress experienced by the person undergoing the transition.

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When Holding Hands Becomes Punishment

In order to avoid suspension after fighting, two male students at a high school in Mesa, Arizona were forced to hold hands for approximately 15 minutes. Pictures of the boys holding hands, and covering their faces while numerous students surrounded the pair are now spreading quickly across the Internet.

It is troubling that the initial reaction to two boys fighting in class is to “humiliate” them with a gesture (holding hands) that is deemed non-violent and for the most part affectionate. What the school is doing is not really addressing the violent act, why the boys chose to use physical violence, or even reinforce that violence does not belong in school. Instead, they allow violence to take place while making non-violence the forced punishment for a violent act.  [Read more...]

Update: trans woman receives justice in attempted rape case

Earlier this year we reported on a case in which the attempted rape of a trans woman was not treated as such  because the victim has a penis and not a vagina. Despite the fact that the attacker intended to rape the woman, the perpetrator was acquitted on the basis that the rape could never have been completed (if one bases his/her assumptions about sexual assault or rape on traditional vaginal intercourse which is heterosexist). The case received attention because it clearly discriminated against trans women by making the direct claim that a trans woman could not be raped or experience an attempted rape if her transition was not “completed”. Thereby, sexual violence against trans women was classified as something that is unlikely to happen.

We are however glad to report that the court has now changed its verdict. The Swedish Federation for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Rights (RFSL) writes in an article that the court came to the conclusion that the perpetrator intended to rape his victim and there was nothing holding him back. Even if this man did not “complete” the assault, his intention was in fact to rape, thereby he is being charged with attempted rape.

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LGBTQ friendly ad done well

We were quite impressed with the portrayal of same sex love in this recent advertisement by the Swedish company Adressändring (a company which advertisements emphasize the importance of registering your new address in order to receive your post).

Previous advertisements by this company have usually been quite funny in that they often depict different mishaps that have taken place. For example, one woman accidentally has her new sex toy sent to her parents address (her old address) and the parents unpack it and believe that it is a children’s swing and that the woman is planning on having children soon.

This recent advertisement, however, depicts the love between two young men who met in Paris and spent (presumably) a holiday or the summer together. The two men are not only in a same-sex relationship; they are also of different ethnicities and speak different first languages. We like this advertisement because it shows that same-sex love is important, passionate, and serious and deserves attention. It also depicts these men in a way that is casual, rather than attempting to make fun of same-sex love, make a spectacle out of it, or be overly stereotypical. In the end, the Swedish man ends up living with a woman since he never received the letter from his lover in Paris. However, Kjell the Swedish man never forgets his trip to Paris. The advertisement ends with the statement, “do not miss out on important mail”.

Together with the advertisement from Adressändring, an older advertisement from McDonalds is also portraying same-sex love in a great way. We like these advertisements as opposed to stereotypical advertisements that just attempt to make fun of same-sex couples.

It is quite unusual that same-sex love is positively portrayed in media. Instead, it is often depicted as entertainment and made silly and laughable. It is also quite unusual to view advertisements that depict lovers of different ethnicities. We like this advertisement and hope that others will follow and include perspectives that appeal to a wide range of individuals.

 

Photo of LGBTQ balloons shared by Flickr user rebolyte under a creative commons license.

Against Me! – Not Losing Touch

I have been a fan of Against Me! for quite a few years now. Even though I have seen them in concert twice before I could not pass up the opportunity to see them at a local place in Sacramento, Ace of Spades, on Labor day. Against Me! are known for their political and socially noteworthy lyrics, energetic performances and for the raspy and distinct voice of their lead singer. Earlier in May this year Against Me! singer Tom Gabel came out as transgender in an issue of Rolling Stones and discussed her plans to transition, while taking the name Laura Jean Grace. Laura’s decision was met with both support and criticism as some very opinionated people weighed in on the news. Laura’s openness and tell-all attitude about the process of transitioning and about her relationships is brave and commendable, but at the same time, if being transgender was more accepted, the news probably would not have spurred so much feedback or caused such a sensation. As a celebrity, Laura is nonetheless in the public eye, and public attention is warranted, but it is interesting to read just how involved the public becomes in another person’s private life, especially when it comes to the concepts of gender, sex and sexual orientation; notions that create massive attention, and depending on whom you ask, are either very fluid, or very firm. Gender, sex, and sexual orientation are all characteristics that shape our daily lives, and that we all have intimate knowledge about as humans. Perhaps this is why we are so interested in putting in our two cents on these subjects, in comparison to lets say an intense discussion about rocket science, since many of us only have limited knowledge about such a topic.

As intense discussions have flourished, what has been focused on less since May is the music. A few stories have discussed the next album titled Transgender Dysphoria Blues, what the album is about, and when it is to be released. I have however read quite a few comments where fans are worried that Laura’s voice or the band’s style of music will change, or that the band will break up. These comments can perhaps be described as personal concerns or gender policing about what gender, transitioning and hormones will “do” to their favorite band. Or, they can be described as general concerns about the sound of a band the fans love and want more music from? I am not sure. But I see no need to worry. The sound of Against Me! is distinct, and Laura’s voice is strong, expressive and raspy and like always, they kicked ass while the audience sang and danced along to songs such as Trash Unreal, Sink Florida Sink and Don’t  Lose Touch. My only concern is that I wished they could have played some more of my favorite songs, such as Reinventing Axl Rose, Those Anarcho Punks are Mysterious, or Animal. At the same time, they played for about an hour and a half (longer than any other of the previous Against Me! concerts I have been to), and my ears are still ringing, two days later (I know, that is not good).

Perhaps Against Me! are the same on stage because even though Laura was assigned male at birth, she has always been Laura, even though it is not until now she found the courage to express herself the way she truly wants to, both on and off stage.

The picture was taken by Hennie during the Against Me! concert.

Joining Forces Against Bullying

The It Gets Better Project is a nationwide dedication to end LGBT bullying, spread awareness, and let people share their stories about discrimination, coming out, respect, acceptance, and how life can get better. This is an important message that highlights the discrimination and violence that many LGBT teens face. Over 532,000 have joined the movement and signed this pledge of support:

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Gay and God-Fearing

Guest blogger Talia bat Pessi is a teenage Femidox (feminist Orthodox) pro-Israel Jew. Her work has appeared in over 40 publications, including the Jewish Week, Ms. Magazine blog, Jerusalem Post, Girl w/ Pen!, Jewish Press, and FBomb. She’s not quite sure how she manages to find spare time, but when she does, she enjoys going to rock concerts, fuzzying with her rescue dog, eating (a lot), messing around in Photoshop, and procrastinating on the Internet.

As well as being a feminist, I am an Orthodox Jew. While I had always been active in gay rights advocacy through my feminism, I never really thought about how Orthodox individuals who are LGBT+ grapple with their sexuality. I recently did some research into this. Considering that the religious right, including the mainstream Orthodox Jewish community, is known for its anti-gay stance, it may seem surprising that there are observant Jews who also identify as LGBT+. However, they do exist.

Over the past two decades, observant LGBT+ Jews have organized in order to petition for increased recognition and inclusion within the Orthodox Jewish community. In 1994, the Gay and Lesbian Yeshiva Day School Alumni Association (GLYDSA) was established as a social group for Orthodox gay and lesbian Jews. Jewish Queer Youth (JQY) was created in 2001 by observant Jewish undergraduates who “were looking for other people in similar ­situations that could understand and relate to each other’s struggles” about sexuality, according to the JQY website.

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