Redefining Masculinity: Are Feminist Men Getting the Job Done?

This has been an exciting week when it comes to men, masculinity, and feminism. From so called “men’s rights” groups, to male feminists strategizing about ways in which masculinity can be redefined; the male-feminist hype has definitely surfaced. I’ve always operated from the assumption that men are completely capable of being feminists. Hell…i’m a feminist. [...]

The intersection of pro-life and pro-choice

Wednesday, 16 September 2009, 21:42 | Category : Dudes for Choice
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I could certainly see myself identifying as pro-life, but never in the way that the current movement defines itself.  The problem is that life and choice are not at opposing ends of the spectrum, and considering that the debate is about choice, and not about life, I will happily take the moniker of pro-choice.
The weird [...]

Conversing with Myself: Choice, Sexism, and Queers… Oh My!

Wednesday, 1 July 2009, 11:52 | Category : Dudes for Choice, LGBTQ
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The following is a cut and paste dialectical discussion about sexism in the LGBT community. The players are me and me, with some borrowed quotations from some fellow dudes for choice. This is part 1. Please, extend the discourse.
Q: In what ways have you seen or experienced sexism in the greater LGBT community?
A: Lots of [...]

Why teenagers still need good safe sex advice

Saturday, 20 June 2009, 13:02 | Category : Abortion, Activism, Birth Control, Dudes for Choice, Pregnancy, Safe Sex, Sex Education
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During my travels to Imperial Valley I was shocked to hear some of the sex “tactics” young men were using on the young womyn for sex (for the purposes of this post we’ll call them Billy and Janet) . A couple left the party to get it on and before intercourse Janet asked Bill if [...]

Is it just me or is it homophobic in here?!

My posting intentions this week were seriously sidetracked late last night when I received a startling text message from a friend. The text message included an attached photo [inset] with the simple words: “I don’t know what to do. Should I call the police? I’m scared.”
I was floored. There seems to be a blatant increase [...]

Why I Am a Pro-Choice Dude

Friday, 12 June 2009, 10:11 | Category : Dudes for Choice, Guest Writers
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Guest writer Jonathan Grindell is an activist from Long Island, New York. He is a committed pro-choice advocate who attended the 2004 March for Women’s Lives in Washington, DC. These are his words . . .
I am pro-choice because as an anarcha-feminist who society has forcibly identified as a male, there is [...]

Pro-Choice Politics Challenge Male Privilege

I recently opened dialogue with like-minded Dudes for Choice (DfC) with the hope of piecing together common threads that bring us together as a united political voice. This brief entry will serve to open that ongoing dialogue and encourage other DfC to jump in on this discussion.
This week’s topic: privilege. In discussing feminist politics with [...]

Dr. Tiller: Letting Personal Experience Shape our Politics.

Saturday, 6 June 2009, 11:02 | Category : Abortion, Activism, Dudes for Choice
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Too often we forget that there is a tremendous amount to be learned through the personal experiences of people at the frontlines. The doctors who exist in a constant state of precarity to the violent behavior of the anti-choice right, the activists who time after time face verbal abuse by the religious right as they [...]

Nationalist Agendas Plague Tiller’s Death

While rightist (pro-life) publications continue to denounce the actions of Scott Roeder (Tiller’s charged murderer) leftist (pro-choice) publications continue to develop and frame an argument more akin to a nationalist, heteropatriarchal agenda that appears supportive of violence, heterosexism, racism, and a general tightening on reproductive freedom.

George Tiller: A Man at the Frontlines

Sunday, 31 May 2009, 19:26 | Category : Dudes for Choice
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The pro-choice movement took a devastating blow this morning with news that George Tiller, a passionate advocate for abortion rights and reproductive health care, was murdered. Feminists all over the country are identifying this as an act of terrorism, and in my honest opinion, rightfully so. It is a politically motivated act of violence against [...]